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Family dinners
Wendy DeSpain | February 19, 2010 | Comment
I think the breakdown of the American family is the lack of sit down family dinners. Just 30 minutes sitting together without music, tv, ipod, or blackberry, being forced to actually interact with each other on a personal level. This is daily bonding time is integral in the strengthening of the fibers that make a strong family unit. Extra curricular activities and homework demands have taken over weekend day evenings and more families are eating out more frequently due to rushed evenings when both parents are working or when there is a single parent. More families are eating in the car or on the coffee table while in front of the tv or on the computer or phone. As evenings have become busy, family dinners have become endangered.
I remember my own childhood, family dinners were absolutely expected. My mom had dinner on the table and my dad came home from work to eight kids sitting around the table ready to eat together. No one missed dinner. Family members were required to be there and interact; it was simply understood. Over time, this accumulates into a massive amount of family time. Without it, cumulatively, the impact is devastating. I think we are witnessing the result in our society today.
Thankfully, some programs, like that at The Grove School, help teach the value of family style dinners by practicing them at lunch time. Interaction is facilitated and seating together is required. Healthy, organic snacks are delivered to the classroom in serving dishes from which teachers serve snack while sitting with students. Conversation and engagement are the positive results.
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